Our ability to find a good man for a quality relationship is determined by the beliefs in our subconscious minds.
Our dating pickers (choices) are directly affected by the subconscious beliefs that we have about men, dating, relationships & ourselves.
How we perceive men’s behaviour and how we conduct ourselves when dating is affected by these beliefs. Both of these can affect how successful we are when dating.
You are the captain of your dating ship. You are the one who makes all of your dating decisions. You are the one who responds to what a man does or doesn’t do. Your responses will determine what type of man you have relationships with. But how well you control your dating ship depends on the health of your dating blueprint in your subconscious mind.
Other people will always be who they are. There will always be good men out there but there will always be womanisers, there will always be men who behave badly, and there will always be lazy men. The types of men on this planet are never going to change.
You are never going to be able to change the whole of the male species but you can easily change yourself, so that you make sure that you avoid the wrong men and make sure that you only date the good ones that are right for you.
You can’t control men but you can learn to control your thoughts and how you respond to men’s choices. You can learn to perceive situations in a positive way, irrespective of what men do.
However, as I’ve said previously what you do and how you perceive situations is heavily influenced by the beliefs that you have in your subconscious mind (Dating Blueprint). If you have negative beliefs about yourself, men, dating or relationships you will continue to self-sabotage relationships or you will date poor quality men and you won’t end up with a healthy and happy relationship with a good man.
This is why to be a successful dater it is important to do the inner work and look at how you date and work out what beliefs you have in your dating blueprint that are driving your behaviour. If you identify any that are stopping you from getting a healthy and happy relationship with a good man, focus on finding a way to change them (there are various techniques), so that you date differently and find love with the right man.
If you need support when doing the inner work or you want to know how to identify and change any beliefs that are stopping you from finding love, a session with me will help you to do that.
Email me at emma@themindmermaid.com for more details or to book a session.
Alternatively you could get a copy of my Dating Toolkit, which is a 120 page dating guide to help you to date happily, confidently, wisely and successfully
I hope this article has helped.
Happy dating
Emma x
* Please be aware that this blog is intended for general informational purposes only and should not be perceived as professional advice. I cannot guarantee results or be held accountable for dating outcomes based on the content of these blog posts. You use this information at your own risk. If you need assistance with your individual situation, please consult a professional.